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Phoebe Cates and Kevin Kline attend the 2017 Tony Awards

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It wasn’t exactly love at first sight for actors Phoebe Cates andKevin Kline,but their fateful first meeting has led to more than 30 years of marriage.

The pair met at an audition in 1982 and married seven years later. They went on to welcome two children, raising them in their home base of New York City.

However, Kline initially had some doubts about their compatibility. ”When I first met Phoebe, I remember thinking, ‘She’s too happy to be with me,’ ” the actor toldEntertainment Weeklyin 2002. “ ‘She’s too enthusiastic about life. …. What’ll we talk about?’ ”

While Kline and Cates keep their love story fairly private — and Cates herself has mostly retired from acting — they continue to be one of Hollywood’s beloved pairs.

Here’s everything to know about Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates’s relationship.

They met at an audition

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Phoebe Cates and Kevin Kline during “Ishtar” Screening - May 7, 1987

Cates, who was fresh off the success of the iconic teen comedyFast Times at Ridgemont High,met the classically trained theater actor Kline at a read-through for the movieThe Big Chillin 1982. Cates wasn’t cast, but Kline was, and the role has become one of his most famous. Their paths would cross again a few years later at the New York Public Theater, where both actors were working on different projects. They started dating shortly thereafter.

They have a 16-year age gap

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Phoebe Cates and Kevin Kline arrives at the 81st Annual Academy Awards

Kline was 41 when they married, and Cates was 25, which Kline addressed ina 2014 interview withThe Guardian. “I was 40-ish when I finally stopped obsessing about acting and thought it would be nice to have a life and actually got married,” he explained. “If I had married someone my own age, the possibility of progeny would have been very slim. I didn’t consciously say: ‘Hey, we could make babies; want to get married?’ It just happened that way.”

Cates and Kline married in 1989

Phoebe Cates and Kevin Kline during 62nd Annual Academy Awards

The actors were married on March 5, 1989 in a super private ceremony in New York.

They have two children

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Kevin Kline, wife Phoebe Cates and their kids, Greta (left) and Owen, are on hand at the Supper Club on W. 47th St. for DKNY Jeans' “Rock the Cure” concert

The couple’s first child, Owen Joseph, was born in 1991. A daughter, Greta Simone, followed in 1994, and Cates put her career on hold to raise the children.

Cates, Kline and their kids appeared in Cates’sFast Timescostar Jennifer Jason-Leigh’sThe Anniversary Partyin 2001.

Today, Greta is a member of the band Frankie Cosmos and Owen works in the film industry; he also acted in 2005’sThe Squid and the Whale.“One of the good things about having your parents in this job is that there’s no mystique to show business,” Kline said of his children’s Hollywood pedigree.

The family may be busy pursuing their own projects, but they see each other frequently. “We have dinner all together once a week at least,” Kline shared oftheir weekly ritual.“The kids haven’t banished us from their lives.”

They live in New York

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Phoebe Cates Kline and Kevin Kline attend the Orlando Magic vs New York Knicks game

Despite their public careers, Kline and Cates live a relatively low-key life in New York City. They’re occasionally photographed at premieres, awards ceremonies (including the Tonys and the Oscars) and basketball games together, but keep their relationship mostly out of the spotlight.

source: people.com