Erin Lichyhas “meat mail” and she isn’t afraid to give her girlfriends a sneak peek!

In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek at the Dec. 17 episode ofThe Real Housewives of New York City, Erin’s willingness to share her husbandAbe’s “d— pic” with the group sparks controversial debate. While some laughed and noted the picture was “incredible,” others weren’t fans of Erin’s decision to share her husband’s intimate photos.

Brynn Whitfield on ‘RHONY’.Bravo/Youtube

Erin Lichy Sparks Debate Among RHONY Cast After Sharing Photo of Husband’s ‘Extraordinary’ Penis

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“I don’t have any d— pics of David. I always try and get meat mail from him, but he never sends them to me,“Sai de Silvalaughs whileJessel Taankadmits, “If the tables were turned and Abe was going around showing pictures of Erin’s giant c—. Like, I don’t know, I would personally be mortified!”

Rebecca Minkoff, on the other hand, has other questions about the picture in question, “It leads me to imagine like, was it hard? Was it soft?”

“I don’t want to see Abe’s d—!“Racquel Chevremontsays. “Even when I was straight, I wouldn’t want to see somebody else’s husband’s d—. I don’t want that image every time I see Abe. How would I erase that from my mind? I just can’t.”

Racquel Chevremont on ‘RHONY’.Bravo/Youtube

Erin Lichy Sparks Debate Among RHONY Cast After Sharing Photo of Husband’s ‘Extraordinary’ Penis

WhileJenna LyonsandBrynn Whitfieldadmit it was “fun” and “extraordinary,“Ubah Hassaninterjects and tells the group she doesn’t “want” to see the photo when Rebecca asks if Erin would share it with the rest of the class.

“I absolutely don’t want to. I respect Abe too much,” Ubah adds, which makes Erin question, “Am I being disrespectful? Now I’m going to feel bad about this?”

“I would be dumped if I showed[my boyfriend] Oliver’s d—,” Ubah continues.

Erin Lichy on ‘RHONY’.Bravo/Youtube

Erin Lichy Sparks Debate Among RHONY Cast After Sharing Photo of Husband’s ‘Extraordinary’ Penis

“I don’t know why my personal situation with my husband and what I’ve shown, is making her so upset,” she explains. “Now I’m like, questioning myself, should I not have shown my girlfriends a picture of a d— pic? I’m a girl’s girl. We do this stuff. This isn’t such a big deal. Relax.”

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The Real Housewives of New York Cityairs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo.

source: people.com